Mummy might be carrying you but remember, Daddy is carrying mummy.

When I said my son already comes first, I mean he comes before ME and everybody else but...

daddy will always come FIRST.

I always believe that parents never really cease being a parent to their children. Long after the kids have left their parents' nest, mothers and fathers remain exactly that to them - ever so worried and ever so nurturing. I think that a lot of couples forget to put each other first especially when they have children. Of course it is absolutely fine to think about the kids and their future but remember that before the children were here, there was you and your partner. Sometimes couples get too comfortable with each other and they get so caught up thinking about their children that they stop being lovers and just become friends. I don't want to be just friends with my husband. I plan to be the same woman he met 6 years ago, if a little grown up and seasoned with time. I remember watching a funny film a couple of years ago. The movie itself was pretty rubbish but I like the whole message of the movie. It's about a couple who have been so busy with their kids and their career that they forgot to make time for each other. So to try and fix things, they agreed to have one night in a week that is specially for the two of them. That's exactly what I plan to do. We don't have to plan expensive dinner at our favourite Italian. We don't have to go to the pub and spend silly quid on alcohol. We don't even have to get out of the house. God gave me a gift in the kitchen so I can just cook a special meal once a week, or we can go to the cinema or even watch some DVDs and have a cozy night in.
Don't get me wrong, though. There will NEVER be any sort of competition between James and our son. When I say I will put my husband first, I don't only mean before my son, but before anything and anybody else. Without a shadow of a doubt, he will do the same for me. And together we will put our son's happiness before our own.